NEVER TAKE FOR GRANTED

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     There are some who think that everything is limitless. Such people tend to take everything for granted and care not of what might happen due to their ignorance. People think that nature is limitless  but is it? Some of those who are rich believe that things like money, food, luxuries and so on are limitless. They care not of how they use such things. But is it so? I say  no, for the poor, these are beyond their reach.  Moreover, there are some who take people who care for them for granted and do not worry of their feelings and emotions. This is where the most complex situation arises.

     People who care greatly for someone are those who hide their feelings. Regardless of how much a person may be hurt by the one whom he/she cares for, the person never shows his/her emotions openly. This is not because they dont care but it is because they care. They donot wish to hurt the feelings of that special person by speaking up on how hurt they are.

     However, regardless of how silent a person remains and cares for another, it too has a limit. The human heart is such that it is impossible to remain quiet for ever. A person may continue to care for another who is special to him/her even after being hurt by that special someone but when the special person keeps repeating his/her mistakes and keeps ignoring the person's feelings, limits are crossed. Every person has a limit of being able to control and ignore the hurt they get from their special one.

     Frankly speaking, a person may be special to you and so you may choose to carre for him/her alot. But you too get hurt even though you do not care to express it for it is the nature of all human beings. So think of the one who cares for you and show your gratitude for if you miss this person, you will have faced a great loss in your life. Once such a person leaves you, you will find life extremely sad and difficult for that is the person who makes one's life happy and easy. So think about that person and give them as much care as they give you and never take them for granted.

By- abhinavjoshi875@gmail.com

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